>As I was saying in the last post that I came into K’s life when I was three and she was over fifty years old. When I look back I think it was a big liability and responsibility for someone who was not young, had ill health, was not financially self sufficient and was dependent on her daughter and son-in-law. I think K was a kind of woman who acted without any fear of consequence and took criticism with a pinch of salt – for her it was something that had to be done and since no one else was doing it, she would take it up without hesitation. But the story here is not so much about K and me, but of K herself. As I was growing up in that household, I was also learning to be invisible and to be an acute observer of the goings on around the place. The person I observed most was
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Am I a good host?
Recently had a chat with my cousin who sounded positive disappointed with my absence from the city while she is going to be around. in earlier times, i would be in a tizzy and obsessed about whether she judged me or whether she should have judged me, etc, etc. today i asked myself where does my priority in life lies? today is one of those rare days when i am feeling nearly good! yippy!!
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